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Having Two Under Two | LYLAS Video

In less than a month we will no longer have two under two! Feels like yesterday I was laying in bed, 9 months pregnant, snuggling my 15 month old, and slightly panicking about what was in store for us as a family of four. The journey wasn’t easy but as the girls grow, and their bond forms, I am constantly reminded of how valuable these past two years have been.

Curious of some of the challenges we faced and what our two under two experience was like? Click on the video below!

 

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Mother’s Day Gift Guide 2017

Are you still searching for the perfect Mother’s Day gift? Whether it’s for your mother, significant other, or in-law, I’ve rounded up a variety of fun and sentimental gifts for mama’s of all ages!

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  1. NASHELLE Blue Quartz Initial & Heart 14k Gold Fill Disc Necklace – $138

If you’d like to go the traditional route – you can never go wrong with jewelry! Handmade initial discs strung alongside your recipient’s favorite color, birth stone, or, if you’re gifting it to your wife, the birthstone(s) of your little ones is sure to please. I love the quality of jewelry by Nashelle but more importantly, I love their message. For every piece of jewelry sold, Nashelle provides a full meal for a person in need. To date, Nashelle has fed close to a half of million people!

2. To Little Arrows MAMA Trucker Hat – $19.99

For any mama with littles, a hat is a wardrobe essential! Finding a cute, casual hat isn’t as easy as it looks but you’ll absolutely LOVE this one! The trucker style is comfortable, adjustable, and stylish – it will quickly become her go-to when she’s sick and tired of her signature mom bun. Whether she’s taking the  kids to school, making a quick target run, or chasing toddlers at the park, she will love this MAMA hat!

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3. Kate Spade New York Portable Bluetooth Speaker – ON SALE for $17.99 (Originally $59.99)

My favorite thing about spring and summer is outdoor entertaining! We love hosting family and friends during the warmer months and one thing that gets a TON of use is my bluetooth speaker. If you’re on the hunt for a Mother’s Day steal, this one’s for you! Originally $59.99, this adorable Kate Spade Portable Bluetooth Speaker is only $17.99 and comes in a variety of colors and patterns!

4. Rustic Cuff – starts at $38.00

Featured as one of Oprah’s favorites things, Rustic Cuff’s gorgeously bold bracelets are a fun Mother’s Day gift for your favorite trendy mama. Stack them, mix them, or wear them alone – Rustic Cuff has a wide variety of ‘cuffs’ to compliment any mama’s style. I personally love the animal print cuffs paired with the signature charm bracelets!

5. World Market Helena Whitewashed Heart Frame – $9.99

Keep it simple and sweet – EVERY mama loves a pretty frame with a memorable photo! I picked this frame from World Market because it’s super versatile, but also unique. I love that it’s pretty enough to be a shelf statement piece and the heart shape is the perfect touch for Mother’s Day. Also, it’s currently on sale for $7.49!

6. The Created Co. ‘World’s Best Mom’ Diner Mug – $16.00

I can only speak for myself but this may be the most practical and useful Mother’s Day gift out there. Grab the special mom in your life a cute mug so when she’s pouring her fresh cup of survival coffee or tea, she thinks of you. Also, check out this adorable Dog Mom mug! I’ll take one of each!

Rosanna ‘Dog Mom’ Mug – $26.00

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Pick Two: Strong and Kind

If you could pick two qualities for your children to possess, what would they be? The question seems like an easy one because most of us can name dozens of favorable qualities we’d like for our children to have, but the the catch is, you can only pick two

Would you pick qualities that give them a better chance of succeeding in the work place? Or how about ones that help them build strong relationships, friendships, and bonds?

When I first became a mom, the newborn days felt as if they lasted an eternity. My nights and days were so long and I filled a lot of my time with self help books and memoirs. One of my favorites was ‘Strong and Kind’ by Korie Robertson. It’s a book about her experiences as a parent, her stories, her battles, and most importantly, her realization that if you want your children to be good people, the best way to teach them is to show them. Pretty self explanatory, huh? Yeah, I thought so too. But Korie really opened my eyes to things I do that may not be teaching our girls the values we want them to exemplify.

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1. STRONG

When I think of the word strong, I think about the sports the girls will try, the criticism they will face, and as good as it is to win, the worse it feels to lose. I think about them coping with losing someone they love, experiencing heartbreak, and facing  challenges as they mature. Right now, Nick and I are here to help them develop but as quickly as these first two years have passed, I’m reminded that we won’t always be able to fix every problem they encounter.

This is why being strong is so important. I want them to be strong enough to say no when they want to and to stand alone if they have to. I want them to be strong enough to carve their own paths and create their own happiness. I want them to be physically strong, mentally strong, and most importantly, faithfully strong – and they need us to live those truths and show them. 

2. KIND

To be kind is to be of a good or benevolent nature or disposition, as a person. As strong as I want the girls to be, I want them to be equally compassionate, selfless, and kind. The best sense of fulfillment comes from acts of love.

Here’s where a few (or all) may disagree: I don’t think you have to take away toys/material things to teach kindness or selflessness. Will my children have everything? No. But, they will treat a janitor with the same respect as they treat a CEO. How? Because they will see that money and ‘things’ are fleeting.

As parents, it’s our duty to embody kindness with patience, gratitude, balance, honesty, compassion, loyalty, and humility. Whew, that’s a lot! But it’s amazing that those attributes can all be wrapped up in one word: kind. I don’t think the girls could truly live a fulfilling life without being kind.

I’d love to give my girls the world, but we cant. However, by modeling positive traits, with confidence, consistency, and unity in truth and love, we can increase the chances of our kids catching on to positive, life altering traits. 

I highly recommend ‘Strong and Kind’. I find myself revisiting highlighted sections and rereading chapters for comfort and guidance. 

Would you pick different qualities for your children? I’d love to know! 

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Two Under Two Update

In less hhan four months, we will no longer have two under two. Was it easy? Not really. But I wouldn’t trade this past year and a half for anything. The bond my girls have made every little bit of chaos worth it. Having back-to-back babies came with a few challenges but there were also a couple of concerns that I shouldn’t have given a second thought to.

The Challenges:

  • NAP TIME

Trying to sync up their nap times is tough! Me time is a rare occurrence and I’m eternally grateful for baby wearing. It’s taken a long time to adjust to not having any down time to recharge. I like to always remind myself that this stage is temporary and that I will soon miss it.

  • GOING ANYWHERE

Leaving the house takes a lot more planning and preparation than I ever imagined. Gone are the days that I can just grab my wallet and make a Target run. On the plus side, my biceps have gotten a little firmer from all the legs, hips, and bags that I carry on a regular basis.

  • MEALS

Sometimes I feel like I live in the kitchen. For the longest, my oldest lived off toast and goldfish. She was a picky eater to say the least. But now, she eats anything I touch. At first, I was ecstatic to see her have an appetite! But then my youngest started solids, and now I do dishes just about as much as I do laundry. I still totally hate doing laundry more though.

What isn’t as bad as I thought it would be:

  • RESPONDING TO BOTH

When I left the hospital after having my youngest, Isabel, my doctor told me to always remember, “No one ever died from crying.” I chuckled in agreement but I can’t tell you how many times I’ve calmed myself down from having a full-blown mommy meltdown by repeating those words in my head. Sometimes, both girls HATE the car. Sometimes, both girls tag team who’s going to wake up in the middle of the night for absolutely no reason and scream. I could list all the sometimes my girls give me a run for my money but I’ve never felt like I had to sacrifice my soothing. Mama instincts and love have helped me navigate the rough waters of learning how to respond to both.

  • SPREADING MY LOVE

This fear began way before I gave birth to baby number two. I had so much love for my first baby girl, Giuliana, and I couldn’t imagine how on earth I could love another little human as much as I did her. Looking back, my fear of not being able to spread my love was silly. My heart grows for both of my girls every day without effort.

“The days are long but the years are short.”

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